When we Get rejected everyone reacts in a different way but the first thing we all ask to ourselves is "Why".
Sometimes it takes longer than a week or more to figure out and sometimes don't want to accept the rejection or believe in the reason even at some point coz of rejection we often wants vengeance.
Wonder how a Gentleman can react or deal with Rejection is what it's all about today.
When a Gentleman Got Rejection in Love
I Have a friend of mine who used to tell me everything and so when he fell in love with someone who was living in the same neighborhood.
He came to me for an advice like hell scared of confessing his feelings to her meanwhile I had no experience but still as a friend I only told him that it takes a lot of efforts and big balls to confess and than there will be two option "Yes or No" and whatever the consequences will be; if rejection, take a rejected sometimes you shouldn't expect anything in return coz the outcome won't always be in your favour.
Was a bad advice but that's what I had thought and well when he confessed to her, She rejected him saying; "I don't want to be in any relationship with anyone. I just want to be focused on studies".
But seeing her accepting random guy proposal was the moment when I Realized it worse than a rejection for him.
The difference of him being rejected and other was he clearly didn't overreacted, threatened or blackmailed etc instead realized Life is too short and better for him she made a choice now it's time to make that rejection a source to do things in a better way.
Dealing with rejection in Business
I know the fear of rejection and sometimes because of that we think it's better to step back from doing thing or taking decisions in life or business.
Just because of this we miss many Good opportunities or proposals and so in business it's better to look at those rejection as a step towards the height one want to reach.
Let's say you have a Good or Unique proposal to offer in a company but they reject it and say we don't need that it's useless or trash so at that moment 90% will leave it but those 10% are those gentleman who knows the time they had spent on making that stuff is worth something and has meaning.
So instead of giving up after a rejection coming from the company that is when he's about to Go all alone with his product or roadmap to build his own company or empire.
I have seen many of examples people who Got rejection in their businesses or many aspects of life and are now successful people.
This is because of Making Gentleman Choices after a rejection. I believe Good thing's takes time and we all should trust the process.
In the end I said it all on rejection and Hopefully you liked it and found my point of view interesting.
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