Life is unpredictable, and it can bring surprises and shocks at any time. We love surprises, but none of us love to be shocked. Sometimes life brings some truth in front of us; we can't avoid it except getting shocked.
There can be many shocking truths, and handling the situation can be different based on the situation. Just imagine what would happen if all of a sudden you acknowledged that you are not the biological son of your parents. What would be your reaction? I am imagining myself in such a situation and sharing my thoughts about it.
To be honest, it must be shocking news for me at the beginning, and it's natural to be shocked as nobody remains prepared for such kind of news. How I figure out the truth mostly impacts me more. if I hear the truth from an outsider, I may get hurt, for it as an outsider must use it to hurt me. I may not believe it also if I hear it from an outsider. I must ask for the truth from my parents in such a case. In another case, if I acknowledge about the truth directly from my parents, it will be easy to console me, as I believe my parents don't have any intention to hurt me.
Who are the parents, in your opinion? Those who are the reason for your birth or those who take care of you, guide you properly, and give you love can care for your entire life. I think just giving birth doesn't make anyone parents because bringing a child into this world is just a part of being parents, but only bringing someone into this world doesn't mean they deserve to be parents. Those who take care of a child, give love and care, teach a child manners, give the knowledge of right and wrong, guide the child, and bear the difficulties, and protect their child when necessary can be considered as parents in my opinion.
So even if I discover myself as an adopted son, they remain my parents like always, and nothing can change the fact, and I believe my biological parents won't be able to replace them. In fact, I may feel lucky thinking because even if they are not my biological parents, they gave me everything and made me capable of who I am now. It's very difficult to share parental love for other children, but my parents are capable of doing it, and it's indeed a great thing. Isn't it natural to feel lucky to receive their parental care and love instead of I am not their biological child? Nothing will change, but my respect for them will increase more, and it will make me more responsible for them.
If my parents tell me the truth, I must respect them because they tell me the truth and they hide it from me, which means there must be a reason. And if I hear the truth from an outsider, it means my parents didn't tell me the truth, thinking that the truth may hurt me. So, in both scenarios, I think it's ok for me.
In the case of my biological parents, I think they might have some reason also for what they forced to leave me. I won't blame them because no parent wants to leave their child. But still, they can't replace my parents.
By the way, it's the 15th of October, and the 15th day of each month is known as the LPUD. I powered up a little Leo and trying to increase my Leo stakes.
I have taken my little steps for growth. Have you done yours?
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