Hello beautiful people. When your relationship starts getting boring and confusing, that shouldn't be a sign to quit right away but rather, a time to re-evaluate the relationship and discover the reasons why the spark is dead.
It should be a time when you both sit down together and have heart to heart conversations in order to sort it out about what the problem is and where it's coming from.
It should be a time when you check within yourself if there are things you are doing wrong which is making the relationship fall apart.
Don't be too hasty to take your leave. Many people have made the mistake of leaving great relationships which they didn't even put efforts to sustain maybe because they believed that the grass is greener on the other side and they use what they see or hear on social media to rate their relationship.
It shouldn't be done that way.
You really have to understand that no relationship is ever perfect. Even your celebrities, influencers and people who flaunt their relationship whether marital/dating/courting, don't have a perfect relationship. It's all about putting efforts to make it work every day.
Great relationships are made when two imperfect people (humans) work on their imperfections/differences together and not give up on each other too soon.
NB:- But when you both have put in great efforts to make it work and it's not working, it's a sign that you should leave. You are not meant for each other.
Good morning and happy new week, friends.
